This is the first; and probably not the last, of blog posts about my bachelorism. I know that its not impossible for me to be in a relationship. I just really don't have the time or energy to do the labrynth of modern day courtship. From what I've experienced, women are always ... narcisistic(sp?).They're either introverted or extroverted narcisists The ones that aren't obviously hounding you for attention are being quite and schemeing about why you are not showering them with it.
I'm an adopted only-child. I admit that I'm spoiled. Growing up. with out siblings has more or less made non-reliant on relationships. I didn't have brothers or sisters to ask about growing up in this day and age. I only had my loving parents that taught me virtues and how to live strong and independent. You can't really ask them about modern social behavior or interactions. They are just simply too out-of-date for someone to be socially ept. That being said, I am not in the habit of cancelling plans or modifying my schedule because of some elses plans to stay home and "cuddle" and they didn't bother to let me know ahead of time. I have other things in life to do. And. I don't quite see the reasoning or weighing of cuddleing all night to productive social networking and exposure to support cultural enriching and promoting hobbies. Or studying for a certification to advance career opprotunities and pay... and practicing and enhancing skill sets to aid in the fore mentioned activities. One could state the "stop and smell the roses" thing, but all that I do is not for me. The more that I do, the harder I work, and the more successful I become is to honor my parents and what they did for me through out my life. Its a reason to give them pride and to continuosly do it. There's nothing I can do to honor them enough or give them enough pride for what they've done for me. Choosing honor and pride for my parents over my life satisfaction is a no brainer.
7.09.2010
Some men actually have lives to live
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